This eulogy was delivered by USS Manley (DD-940)
Association President, Joe Dennison, at the memorial service
conducted on Friday, April 20, 2007 on board the USS Wisconsin
(BB-64)

The billows roll,
the breezes blow,
Hurrah, my boys, we're homeward bound!
We're homeward
bound, and I hear the sound,
So heave on the caps'n and make it spin round.
Hurrah, my boys,
we're homeward bound!
Our anchor's
aweigh and our sails they are set,
And you we are leaving we leave with regret,
Hurrah, my boys,
we're homeward bound!
It is fitting we
assemble in this great city of Norfolk - a city steep in naval
history - a city we once called our homeport - for this eleventh
reunion and the fiftieth anniversary of the commissioning of the USS
Manley. For the next several days we will share a story or two -
or three - that more than likely all of us have heard before many
times.
Like no other men, sailors
of the sea share a bounty of experiences and from those experiences
memories certain never to fade. The ensuing tales follow us across
oceans and continents erupting now and then to be shared with all
who will listen and even those who will not. So, please be patient
with us when we gather in quiet corners to make a little noise and
pour forth the infinite details of our adventures at sea.
Our memories will fire our
spirit and justly challenge our will. They will shake us and stir
in us the recollection of a youth devoid of fear and staunchly
proud of a well spent service in the cause of our great Nation.
Those stories, these memories are, if nothing less, a measurement
of our lasting legacy.
It is most appropriate
also that we gather here this morning upon this deck in this great
battleship and recall what is now an obsolete time and an
oft-forgotten adventure that became the soul of our character.
This overwhelming backdrop surrounding us this morning only whets
our desire to sail one more voyage in a sleek, gray lady to prove
to all we indeed remain able bodied seamen. We dream in our quiet
slumber to sail with a following wind back to the ocean of
yesterday and pause our fleeting time to do it all over again.
But it cannot be.
It is an ache hopelessly
beyond our reach and a wish beyond the understanding of all who
have never had the adventure. There is more to the craving for the
sea, - the preservation of our camaraderie, and, if I might be so
bold to say, the love for our shipmates.
Destroyer life is unique
and has been described as rugged and rigorous; demanding and
frequently requiring enormous physical and mental stamina.
Consider that Manley operated with a crew of less than three
hundred officers and men, often much less. Very quickly you learn
the idiosyncrasies of fellow crew members, what causes him to tick
and what keeps him from ticking. Even more quickly, you learn that
all of you have been handed a burdensome responsibility and a
variety of duties that demand flawless performance.
Destroyermen learn to
depend upon each other 24/7. Survival and mission success are the
products of a well oiled machine that performs every day's
operations routinely after months of rehearsal, rehearsal, and
rehearsal. Emergencies are not allowed to become emergencies; any
threat to the crew or ship must be quieted almost immediately.
In her twenty-six years,
Manley time and time again demonstrated superior skill at saving
lives: there was Zanzibar, the World Bond, pilots, sailors,
civilians yanked from the sea's grip. Her emergency teams
contended with three gun mount explosions, fires, raging storms,
and even loss of power, and they consistently performed
heroically. Recognize that a destroyer's crew rotates about every
two or three years; yet, repeatedly crew after crew - the men of
1959, the men of 1966, the men of 1982 - answered every challenge
and executed with precision.
Evolving from the depth of
this kinship is a trust and respect so robust that crew members
grow as inseparable brothers. They suffer when the other suffers,
laugh when the other laughs, cry when the other cries; when one is
short on cash, the other digs deep; when one falls down, the other
extends his hand. It is, you see, the genuine definition of the
word "Shipmate."
And when the sun sets as
it does, we mourn our shipmates and we suffer his loss as we must.
In all the stories, in all the memories, in all the adventures, he
is without question our central character. He is the memory, he is
the reason, he is the meaning to this gathering.
It is essential that we
not forget and most appropriate that we in the Manley
Association reserve a few minutes in our reunion to honor our
service together. I believe the greatest contribution a man can
make is his unselfish, unwavering service to his fellow citizen.
President John F. Kennedy on August 1, 1963 in his remarks to an
Annapolis graduating class said: "I can imagine no more rewarding
a career. And any man who may be asked in this century what he did
to make his life worthwhile, I think can respond with a good deal
of pride and satisfaction: 'I served in the United States Navy.'"
Shipmates, you have served and should rest with utmost pride.
In this time of challenge
and division, our men and women are being called upon every day to
make tremendous and courageous sacrifices in lands hostile to our
nature and beliefs. We salute each and everyone of them, and pray
for their safe return home.
Our shipmates being
remembered this morning stood steadfast beside us with great
self-determination in the interest of humanity and in the cause of
the day. Many Americans died in operations that remain to this
day, unacknowledged, entailing heroism and loss that have yet to
be revealed to a grateful Country.
We should remember and
honor those sacrifices that brought about a victorious but
unceremonious conclusion to the Cold War, to the enormous
betterment of the United State and the world. Cold War warriors
have now entered the history books for their roles in conquering
tyranny and freeing millions from communist servitude, and we must
not allow the history books to lie gathering dust on a library
shelf somewhere.
And as we honor the heroic
performance of today's armed forces, our shipmates are not to rest
anonymously in their shadow but are destined one day to stand at
their side knowing that we did together our duty with equal
determination.
Sergeant Brian Shay joins
us with his mother, Kathryn, and wife, Priscilla, this morning to
honor the service of his father, Christopher Shay. Shaun and Jody
McCabe join their mother, Lucy, in what has become a family
tradition in not forgetting their father, Charles, and his naval
service.
Each and every one of us
has earned the right to be proud of our service, and every
American owes those not with us this morning their greatest
appreciation. Heroes, after all, are common people who do what has
to be done when it needs to be done regardless of the
consequences. You can rest knowing that history will treat us
fairly and with dignity.
When you leave here this
morning know that you sailed the oceans with shipmates who engaged
in a noble cause, serving their Country with remarkable
dedication, with utmost integrity and pride, and honor, with
distinction and valor during war, conflict, skirmish, and peace.
Almighty God, we make this
earnest prayer that you will keep the United States in your holy
protection, and that you will hold our men and women in uniform in
the safety of your embrace. Dear Lord, we pray also that our
departed loved ones who we pay respect to this morning have found
the peace and comfort of your eternal domain.
O h the
times was hard and the wages low
Leave her, shipmate, leave her.
And the grub was
bad and the gales did blow
And it's time for us to leave her.
Leave her,
shipmate, leave her.
For the voyage is
done and the winds do blow
From Charleston docks to Hong Kong shore
From ancient Athens to Norfolk yards
She did steer straight and on course stay.
I thought I heard
the old man say
You can go ashore and take your pay.
Leave her,
shipmate, leave her.
The voyage was
long
The winds was bad and the gales was strong
But we leave her tight, we leave her trim
Oh, leave her, shipmate, leave her with a grin.
And now it's time
to say goodbye
For the old pier head's a-drawing nigh.
'Fore you go, shipmate, let us taste a cup of wine
And sing a song.
We will all sing a
song...
Oh! may we always be
On a splendid ship the like of she.
Coil down,
shipmate, coil down.
It's time to leave her, shipmate, it's time to leave her.
The voyage is done.

This page last updated
18 August 2011