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MANLEY NOTES Page 7 REACH OUT AND FEEL THE PRIDE I am no longer comfortable being a part of the system that has such poor values, and I do not want to perpetuate those values by pretending that who is eating at Morton’s is a big subject. There are plenty of other stars in the American firmament...the policemen and women who go off on patrol in South Central and have no idea if they will return alive; the orderlies and paramedics who bring in people who have been in terrible accidents and prepare them for surgery; the teachers and nurses who throw their whole spirits into caring for autistic children; the kind of men and women who work in hospices and in cancer wards. Think of each and every fireman who was running up the stairs at the World Trade Center as the towers began to collapse.  Now you have my idea of a real hero. I came to realize that life lived to help others is the only one that matters.  This is my highest and best use as a human.  I can put it another way.  Years ago, I realized I could never be as great an actor as Olivier or as good a comic as Steve Martin...or Martin Mull or Fred Willard--or as good an economist as Samuelson or Friedman or as good a writer as Fitzgerald.  Or even remotely close to any of them. But I could be a devoted father to my son, husband to my wife and, above all, a good son to the parents who had done so much for me.  This came to be my main task in life.  I did it moderately well with my son, pretty well with my wife and well indeed with my parents (with my sister’s help).  I cared for and paid attention to them in their declining years.  I stayed with my father as he got sick, went into extremis and then into a coma and then entered im-mortality with my sister and me reading him the Psalms. This was the only point at which life touched the lives of the soldiers in Iraq or the firefighters in New York.  I came to realize that life lived to help others is the only one that matters and that it is my duty, in return for the lavish life God has devolved upon me, to help others He has placed in my path.  This is my highest and best use as a human. Faith is not believing that God can.  It is knowing that God will.  (Continued from page 6) Generations Of Valor Pearl Harbor survivor Houston James of Dallas embraces Marine Staff Sgt Mark Graunke Jr. during a Veterans Day commemoration in Dallas recently.  Graunke lost a hand, a leg and an eye when he defused a bomb in Iraq last year.         WORD FROM THE INJURED    MARINE SEMPER FI FUND “...In 2005, the Fund was able to pro-vide $2,229,126 in assistance.  We are indebted to our donors who have responded with unprecedented gen-erosity and compassion.  Gifts of time, talent, property, and money have assured that the healing pres-ence of families, who could not have otherwise attended their loved one, was there to make a difference. The Injured Marine Semper Fi Fund continues to thrive on the energy and dedication of its staff and volunteers.  O behalf of everyone at IMSFF--from the dedicated staff to the committed volunteers and board members, I extend our most since thanks.  We honestly could not do it without you.” General Al Gray, USMC (Ret) Chairman of the Board of Directors www.SemperFiFund.orgRipped from the Pages of 1955 “When I first started driving, who would have thought gas would someday cost 29 cents a gallon?  Guess we’d be better off leaving the car in the garage.” “I’m afraid the Volkswagen is going to open the door to a whole lot of foreign business.” “Did you see where some baseball player just signed a contract for $75,000 a year just to play ball?  It wouldn’t surprise me if someday they’ll be making more than the president.” “I never thought I’d see the day all our kitchen appliances would be electric.  They are even making electric typewriters now.” “If cigarettes keep going up in price, I’m going to quit.  A quarter a pack is  ridiculous.”
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MANLEY NOTES
REACH OUT AND FEEL THE PRIDE
Dear Mother, Dad, and
******
,
Well we are back on the gunline. 
We really had a welcome back too. 
Three other destroyers and the
Newport News (cruiser) were firing
like mad at Cap Lay.  (Cap Lay is
the point just north of the DMZ. 
The VC have gun emplacements
there.)  We waded right in and
opened up.  We fired 923 rounds in
one night.  We couldn’t even see
the shore because of the smoke.
Now, tonight we are all going to be
probably about 18 hours without
sleep, re-arming.  We are on our
way to meet the AE (ammo ship)
now.
Other than that not much has hap-
pened since Kaohsiung.  The
weather is rough and rainy.  The
temperature is 62
o. 
We passed the
USS Coral Sea in the mist today. 
At first I thought is was
*******
’s ship,
the Kitty Hawk.  The Coral Sea is
No. 43.  The Kitty Hawk is No. 63.
The first day out from Kaohsiung
about half the crew had diarrhea.  I
had it too.  After that one day,
though, everyone is fine.  I guess it
was getting our insides cleaned out
again.
I just wrote to
*******.
  I bet it is cold up
there in Chicago now.  I guess they
won’t do as much drilling outside as
we did.  
I have also written to most of those
colleges, so I’m waiting to hear from
them. 
*****
is in his second year of
junior college in Daytona Beach. 
Next year he will go to the U. of
Florida.  I had originally eliminated
the south because I thought those
colleges would specialize in the
southern forests, and I like the north
woods better.
However, I wrote to the ones you
added anyway.  Love,
Letters From The Front is a series
of letters written by a young sailor
to his parents back home while he
served on board during the 1967 -
1968 WestPac cruise.  The letters
are unedited except for spelling cor-
rections and the names of individu-
als have been omitted to protect the
innocent.
LETTER FROM THE FRONT
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gradually, my changing as a person and the world’s change have overtaken
it.  On a small scale, Morton’s while better than ever, no longer attracts as
many stars as it used to.  It still brings in the rich people in droves and defi-
nitely some stars.  I saw Samuel L. Jackson there a few days ago, and we
had a nice visit, and right before that, I saw and had a splendid talk with
Warren Beatty in an elevator, in which we agreed that Splendor in the Grass
was a super movie.  But Morton’s is not the star galaxy it once was, though it
probably will be again.
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Beyond that, a bigger change has happened.  I no longer think Hollywood
stars are terribly important.  They are uniformly pleasant, friendly people,
and they treat me better than I deserve to be treated.  But a man or woman
who makes a huge wage for memorizing lines and reciting them in front of a
camera is no longer my idea of a shining star we should all look up to.
How can a man or woman who makes an eight-figure wage and lives in in-
sane luxury really be a star in today’s world, if by a “star” we mean someone
bright and powerful and attractive as a role model?  Real stars are not riding
around in the backs of limousines or in Porsches or getting trained in yoga or
Pilates and eating only raw fruit while they have Vietnamese girls do their
nails.
They can be interesting, nice people, but they are not heroes to me any
longer.  A real star is the soldier of the 4th Infantry Division who poked his
head into a hole on a farm near Tikrit, Iraq.  He could have been met by a
bomb or a hail of AK-47 bullets.  Instead, he faced an abject Saddam Hus-
sein and the gratitude of all of the decent people of the world.
A real star is the U.S. soldier who was sent to disarm a bomb next to a road
north of Baghdad.  He approached it, and the bomb went off and killed him.
A real star, the kind who haunts my memory night and day, is the U.S. sol-
dier in Baghdad who saw a little girl playing with a piece of unexploded ord-
nance on a street near where he was guarding a station.  He pushed her
aside and threw himself on it just as it exploded.  He left a family desolate in
California and a little girl alive in Baghdad.
The stars who deserve media attention are not the ones who have lavish
weddings on TV but the ones who patrol the streets of Mosul even after two
of their buddies were murdered and their bodies battered and stripped for
the sin of trying to protect Iraqis from terrorists.
We put couples with incomes of $100 million a year on the covers of our
magazines.  The noncoms and officers who barely scrape by on military pay
but stand on guard in Afghanistan and Iraq and on ships and in submarines
and near the Arctic Circle are anonymous as they live and die.
(Continued on page 7)
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